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HOW TO SHARE DOMESTIC RESPONSIBILITY AND

Get Rid of Resentment 

TO GET MORE TIME BACK FOR YOURSELF

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I help moms divvy up domestic responsibilities with their partners through my proprietary 3 Step System so that they can have a more harmonious home life and stronger relationship. Are YOU harmony curious?

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Mental Load Miracle Mini-Course

Are you drowning in the domestic worklaod and your husband just isn't pulling his weight? Watch this 12 minute workshop on how to get your spouse to participate in domestic responsibilities. We'll also cover how to have these hard conversations. I got you!

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Mom and Dad Meet Up Agenda

Do you feel like you and your spouse are ships passing in the night and rarely on the same page? I created this awesome quick weekly check-in “agenda” to make regular communication simple and effective.

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3 Tips for Better Communication

Download this mini guide for do-able yet powerful communication tips. Communication is the barrier to any relationship. Use this guide to help you get better at communicating with your spouse and bringing more harmony to your relationship.

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Kids Schedule Template

This is perfect for busy or new parents. Fill out your kid(s) basic routine with this easy template and post for all to see, so no matter who is caring for your children their basic needs are always met and routine followed.

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Diaper Bag Pack List

Never forget anything in the diaper bag again! Download this comprehensive list to pack a day/diaper bag for ages 0-7.

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The Ultimate Baby Registry List

If you’re expecting your first child, it can be so intimidating to know what all the baby stuff even is, let alone what you should register for. I really wish I had a list like this when I was pregnant, so I created one just for you complete with links to purchase!

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Feeling Time Poor? 

Download this quick, but life changing FREE time chart here and let's find out where some changes can be made to spend time on things that bring you more joy!

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Hubby Resentment Repair

Download this simple, but effective set of tips on how to reconnect when resentment towards your husband is building. Yes, fixing the root of the problem and getting them to pull their weight at home is definitely the answer, but softening the tension will be a much more pleasant road to getting what you want.

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OUR STORY

Pace Webb

It all began when my daughter was about 6 months old. Despite having my dream husband and healthy child, I couldn’t shake the growing feeling of resentment in our relationship. No one tells you about the time and mental load caring for another human takes! On top of having a career, the expectation for mothers to continue to be the “CEO” of the household is simply outdated.

My first step was to look within and take stock of how I was spending my time vs. how I wanted to be spending my time. I realized that I wasn’t sharing the work load of caring for our child or household with my husband and although he was willing to do anything I asked, the fact that I held all the keys was too much to balance while having a demanding career.

I decided to apply everything I learned from being a chef leading high production kitchens servicing demanding clients and a CEO managing multi million dollar budgets and leading executive teams, to running a household and managing my relationship at home. Over the years, I have developed and tested systems and communication strategies to help dual working households with children effectively navigate the domestic workload.

While life and relationships are always a work in progress, it has done so much to make our relationship stronger and given me more mental space and time to be the best person, wife, friend and mama and I hope it does the same for YOU!

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Created by a busy mom, for busy moms!

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THE MENTAL LOAD IS UNSUSTAINABLE

And we are DROWNING

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Does This Sound Like You?


Moms are now a huge part of the workforce and almost half are earning equal to or more than their spouses - cool! But, what about caring for the household and children? That's still on moms too, but that just doesn't work anymore. 

  • Do you feel like... you're carrying the domestic load completely/mostly alone?
  • Does it seem... like there's a never ending to-do list?
  • Are you frustrated that... your partner just doesn't get it?
  • And when it comes down to it, do you... have built up resentments?

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Testimonials

On the first exercise during Week 1, I realized how much I’m actually doing, it’s no wonder I’m spread so thin. My time chart was completely out of whack and unsustainable. This simple exercise has led me to some major decisions that will ultimately make for a more harmonious home life and certainly allow me to show up in the ways I want to for my family and for my partner.

V. M. (San Diego, CA)

I was skeptical if this was really going to work. Ummmm, it does! I’ve been really ready to get more consistent help from my very willing and loving husband, but I haven’t had a clear system. We’ve been together a really long time so the communication part is pretty easy for us, but the Family Intake exercise was so powerful to see how much I actually do. Since the workload has been a pain point for us for a while, he was actually ready to take a deep dive with me on who is doing what and open to taking on more responsibilities. He’s self admittedly not great with deadlines, so we are starting small so he can have wins and then we can make gradual changes. The awareness of what each is doing and having a guideline has been so critical to set us up for a real partnership change.

​R. L. (Pasadena, CA)

My partner and I are about to have a baby. During the Week 3 Family Responsibility Intake exercise, we discovered some major expectation discrepancies. We were able to talk about it rationally with the communication tools Pace gave me and while it was a bit uncomfortable, it would be so much worse had we not had this conversation. We are getting set up right for this next chapter and this course couldn’t have come at a better time.

G. K. (Scottsdale, AZ)

My husband was reluctant about the “chart”, but was at least open to it. What we realized is that we are both always doing the same things and often have to communicate who is doing what every day. The Family Responsibility Chart allows us to know who is doing what routine tasks and when, so it saves conversation and communication for much more fun things! Plus now what each other does is clearly laid out and there isn’t a feeling of “she doesn’t think I do enough” from me and on the other hand I can visually see how much he actually does.

B. A. (Atlanta, GA)

My husband and I have been married for about 15 years and our kids are a little older, so we are very much in a set domestic routine that frankly needs to be overhauled. I’m a super organized person and find it’s easier for me to just do most of the tasks rather than explain to my (very willing and capable) husband how to do them. But this is getting me nowhere but overwhelmed and cranky! This workshop came at a perfect transitional point in our lives and while I’m still a little resistant to leading the change since I have all the systems in my head, I I already feel a sense of relief knowing that my husband is ready and willing to take over more things and things that I don’t like doing. I’m looking forward to being more myself again and certainly less grumpy!

P. E. (Seattle, WA)

I have to say, just the first 2 exercises were worth the time and cost of the workshop alone. In the first exercise where I tracked how I think I spent my time, I already knew it was going to be out of balance and unhealthy. THEN, I got to the second exercise where you track how much time I spent on each task every day and Oh wow. This was a real wakeup call that has informed some big decisions on how I spend my time, but also has already made me re-evaluate the smaller daily decisions I make.

B. K. (Sierra Madre, CA)

I feel like we’ve all been in this cycle of husband thinks wife is “too bossy/controlling” and we think hubs are “lazy” or “oblivious” to what needs to get done. We are no exception to this cycle and we are both so ready to change the channel on this narrative. The Family Responsibility Chart is far more than your typical “chore” chart. It assigns each partner an area/task to take ownership of so they can be a real partner as opposed to the wife being the “CEO” of the household and simply giving orders to the husband. And of course the tasks are flexible, but at least it’s all clearly laid out on who is doing what as a basic framework. This not only gives me more peace of mind that I don’t have to worry about delegating on a daily/weekly basis, but it sets the tone for a higher level of respect between us and it is so important for us to model that for our children.

L. J. (Los Angeles, CA)

The time chart exercise was so depressing! But I already had a hunch of how it would look. There’s just something more powerful about seeing it all written down to know that it cannot continue like this. My husband and I have had small conversations about him taking on more of the domestic workload (which he’s more than willing to do) but I’m really not comfortable with confrontation and frankly, I didn’t know how to create a system or start having effective conversations that didn’t end up in tears or an argument. Enter the Home Flows workshop! I learned key words and phrases to help me have these conversations so I can actually start to make changes in how we divvy up the domestic workload and be more relaxed and at the very least less short with my sweet husband.

C. L. (Austin, TX)

This course has been a huge help to me and my family. Pace has great advice for busy parents.It is not only about scheduling chores and homework and work, it’s also about scheduling time for yourself. As a mom that would make me feels guilty but now it’s on my schedule! The weekly workshop was so fun and very informative. My children are happy to know which chores are theirs and which are mine. And the time blocking for chores and homework gets them back the “beloved screens” quicker ;) A lot less nagging from me and less complaining from them. I have recommended Home Flows course to a couple of friends already!

P.L. (Los Angeles, CA)

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Self-Guided Course

Mental Load Miracle

A 3 Step System to Domestic Equality

If you identify with any of the below, this course is for you!
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  • ​Overwhelmed with the mental load of motherhood.​​​
  • Looking for ways to communicate more effectively about domestic responsibilities with your partner.
  • Desperate for an actual SOLUTION to sharing the Mental/Domestic Load that comes without the drama.


In this course, you will learn:

  • ​How to get more time back for yourself.
  • How to divide responsibilities peacefully with your spouse and communicate effectively for a more harmonious home and relationship.
  • An ongoing communication plan surrounding the topic of shared domestic responsibilities, so it's sustainable for all.


3 Step System

  • Step 1- Identify how you think you're spending your time vs. how you are actually spending your time and how you WANT to be spending your time. I make this very easy with a pre-templated and customizable time tracker.
  • Step 2- Use my pre-templated and customizable list of all visible and invisible tasks that need to happen to run a household and care for children. Fill out who is currently doing what vs. how you WANT it to be shared with your spouse.
  • Step 3- Use my communication techniques to have these conversations with your spouse to get their buy in to take on more of the Mental/Domestic Load along with a Printable Family Responsibility Chart that is crystal clear.
  • BONUS- you will also receive a Weekly Check-In Agenda that is the ultimate guide for making this new division of labor last.

FAQs-

Is this for the couple or just the wife/mother?
This course is geared towards the wife/mother since we are the ones who are still the default caregivers. You can book me for one-on-one consultations with you and your spouse.

Why should I have to do more work when I’m already overloaded with this stuff?
Whether you like it or not, women are still an oppressed group and the oppressed have to do a little more upfront work to change the situation for now and for the future. If you do nothing, nothing will change. As someone on the other side of this problem, my relationship and homelife is INFINITELY better and more equal.

How long will this take?
There are a total of 10 videos, about 5 minutes each. I recommend you watch about x3 videos per week (15 min total) and then do the mini exercises after each one, so overall- 15-30 minutes of effort per week or 4 weeks.

Is this live or pre-recorded?
This is a go at your own pace pre-recorded workshop with Pace, ideal for the busy mama! We do have a monthly Live version of this workshop if you feel that you need more accountability and real time access to Pace.

Is there any support?
Yes! You get access to our private FB Community to ask any questions/challenges!

What format are the templates in?
Both Google Sheets and Excel.

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Self-Guided Course

Really Ready for Baby!

  • ​1 hr 15 minutes
  • 15 videos
  • pdf download
  • Interactive workbook in Google Sheets
  • ​go at your own pace


This is a go at your own pace pre-recorded workshop with Pace for the expecting mother.

You will receive a digital workbook in both pdf and Google Sheets and access to our Facebook Community!

In this course, I compiled everything I wish I knew before my first child was born. The focus is around dividing baby-related responsibilities (both pre-arrival and post) with your spouse and having important conversations around domestic labor and what it really takes to care for baby and allow mama to recover.


I’ll guide you through having these conversations with your partner and I’ll provide a thorough list of everything that should be considered so there is a general plan for baby’s arrival! You’ll even get a Baby Responsibility chart in the end so everyone is aware of each other’s responsibilities ahead of time. This will make your new motherhood experience INFINITELY better, I promise!


And honestly, I might be the most excited about the Baby Registry List. I had NO idea where to start with the baby registry and it was so overwhelming. I wish I had a friend come over for an hour and sit down with me and show me all the stuff and explain it to me. So that’s what I’m going to do with you! You’ll have a complete list with links to add to your registry. Super simple.

In this course, we'll cover:

  • Baby Responsibilities (Who will do what before and after baby comes. You’ll get a nifty chart as well!)
  • Baby Registry List (This is the ultimate no fuss/straight forward list for everything you need to register for.)
  • ​​Budgeting For Baby



Inside we'll show you:

  • How to successfully divide baby responsibilities with your spouse for the best possible motherhood experience!  
  • ​Everything you actually need for your baby registry. This will save you HOURS of research!
  • Best tips for communication with your spouse.
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Live Virtual Group Workshop

(LIVE) Mental Load Miracle

A 5 Step System to Domestic Equality

If you identify with any of the below, this course is for you!

  • ​Overwhelmed with the mental load of motherhood.​​​
  • Looking for ways to communicate more effectively about domestic responsibilities with your partner.
  • Desperate for an actual SOLUTION to sharing the Mental/Domestic Load that comes without the drama.


In this course, you will learn:

  • ​How to get more time back for yourself.
  • How to divide responsibilities peacefully with your spouse and communicate effectively for a more harmonious home and relationship.
  • An ongoing communication plan surrounding the topic of shared domestic responsibilities, so it's sustainable for all.


I will personally guide you through my proven 5 Step System to divide the domestic workload with your spouse:

  • Time Analysis (find out where all your time is actually going)
  • Goals (map out what you would rather be doing with your time)
  • Current Domestic Workload (fill out the Family Responsibility Intake form to get a clear picture of who is doing what)
  • Redistribution + Sustaining the New Shared Workload (decide on how the responsibilities will shift + receive a made-for-you Family Responsibility Chart)
  • Home Systems (Household Inventory, Cleaning Checklists,Time Blocking for Productivity, Hired Help Schedule + Workflow)


Dates/Times: Choose your time slot below.

Each week, you'll watch about 15 minutes of pre-recorded course material.

I will outline exactly which lessons to watch before the 1 hour Live Q+A session with me of which there are 4 total.

The workbook is in Google Sheets.

​I'm so excited for you to have the wins from this course!

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Self-Guided Course

Household Harmony

  • ​27 minutes
  • 6 videos
  • pdf download
  • ​go at your own pace

  • ​BONUS: Google Sheets workbook (not required for the course)


Most people aren’t “systems” people. But I am!
Over my years as a professional chef and CEO I had to build and operate efficient systems to achieve huge outcomes.

I applied the same mentality to my household and these systems are going to save you so much TIME and MENTAL LABOR!

Plus, ANYONE in your house (spouse, kids, nanny, etc.) will be able to follow these systems and you are no longer the “gatekeeper”.

In this course, we’ll cover:

Household Inventory (A template for everything non-grocery in your house that needs to get purchased).

Grocery Inventory (A template for everything non-grocery in your house that needs to get purchased).

Household Cleaning Checklist (A template for every room and part that needs to get cleaned in your house to make it feel like a home).

Time Blocking: These are all great systems, but how do I actually make sure they get DONE? Time blocking is one of my greatest tools for productivity and feeling “ahead” instead of “behind”.

Inside, we'll show you:

  • Stop worrying about a stupid list, so you can have more time/mental energy to spend on more fun things!

  • Feel ahead with what needs to happen in your household, so you can relax knowing that there is a time for everything.

  • Enlist your family in household responsibilities, so you aren’t the “gatekeeper” of your homelife.
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Self-Guided Course

Holiday Harmony

  • ​30 minutes
  • 15 videos
  • pdf download
  • ​go at your own pace

  • ​BONUS: Google Sheets workbook (not required for the course)


Do you LOVE the Holidays, but HATE the overwhelm?! Me too. That’s why I created this course.

Being a mom, I realized that I needed to bite off smaller chunks over longer periods of time.

I’ll take you from the first week of October to the first week of December. We’ll actually ENJOY the holiday season instead of creeping up on us like some tidal wave of to-dos and already heightened emotions.

You're going to LOVE this course because: 

  • I’ve done ALL the thinking for you, so you can just tune in and I’ll be right there with you to do all the fun holiday stuff!

  • The steps are so manageable and all optional, so by the time December comes you can actually enjoy the holidays.

  • You’ll approach the holidays with intention so you don’t get caught up in the frenzied feeling that leaves us mamas depleted.

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Click The Button below and put in your best email address to get my free 12 minute training on how to get your spouse to participate in domestic responsibilities. We'll also cover how to have these hard conversations. I got you!